Judging the Struggle

I haven’t met anyone perfect yet. There are few people who want me to believe they have it all figured out, but I’m not buying it. Some struggles are easier to hide, others play out in the public eye,  and some are devastating. But part of the human condition means that we are fallen creatures and that we often sweat the small things, wrestle with  big questions, doubt was supposed to be certain. Some refer to these struggles as baggage. I don’t agree. Baggage is something you choose to carry around. Our struggles are too often tied in to the very core of who we are, to the human condition.

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As a Christian, I find myself wanting to judge people whose battle is different than mine more harshly and empathize with those whose struggles mirror my own.

That’s very hypocritical.

Today as I run into hurting people whose struggles are so different than mine that I can’t relate to, I’m committed not to judge them. I’m going to try to love them. While judging comes naturally for me, loving takes a lot more effort. That means showing,

respect,

kindness,

attention,

grace,

friendliness,

I believe this will be harder than I expect, but I must start sometime. Today feels like the right day.

Is there a change you need to make in your attitude, life, thinking that you’ve been putting off? Why not join me and make this your starting point?

Comments

9 responses to “Judging the Struggle”

  1. Mark Avatar
    Mark

    Maurilio, that’s a great reminder. I too am have a tendency to be critical of others and have been feeling convicted lately about it. Thanks for this post. I’m joining you. 

    1. Maurilio Amorim Avatar

      Thank you Mark for your honesty. Glad we’re on this road together.

  2. Ashley Jensen Avatar

    Great reminder indeed. I was very self-righteous and still am to some degree. Being shown grace has a way of humbling us and all of a sudden we become graceful. Great post Maurilio.

    1. Maurilio Amorim Avatar

      Thanks for your transparency, Ashley.

  3. Tim Godby Avatar

    Ouch. “As a Christian, I find myself wanting to judge people whose battle is different than mine more harshly and empathize with those whose struggles mirror my own.” Probably the most quotable line I’ll read this week. I am not inspired, but I AM convicted. Thanks for being in-tune with the Holy Spirit, Maurilio.

    1. Maurilio Amorim Avatar

      I’m glad it spoke to you, Tim.

  4. Clifford D. Tate, Sr. Avatar
    Clifford D. Tate, Sr.

    This is mine and many Christians struggle everyday. I am right now working to get my Manuscript edited and published. The work is all about my struggle with pornography and how Christ made a difference in my life. Yet, I still am in a Lord Jesus for speaking to me and many through Maurilio…

  5. MAH Avatar
    MAH

    A lady at our church the other morning sang the song “Perfect People” by Natalie Grant.  I am glad to know that God knows I am imperfect but loves me anyway, but that means that I too have love other people and understand that they too are imperfect and that God loves them too.  Encouragement and love always works a whole lot better.

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