I Knew a Lot More About Life When I Graduated From College Than I Do Today

I’m sure I was smarter back at my college graduation days. Certainty was not a problem and I was prepared to take on the world. So I thought. But time has a way of teaching you lessons no one else can. So I’m a bit older and perhaps somewhat wiser, I hope. Here’s some of my certainties at age 22:

Life is black or white. You’re either on the side of truth or not.  At 22 I saw a world with very few shades of gray. It was either right or wrong and ambiguity was the playground of the weak.

God was precise and predicable. Somehow the God of my early twenties was more like a German engineer than an artist. He was like a machine with a defined pathway to action and subsequent reactions rather than a mysterious and yet gracious being who eludes being imprisoned by human intellect.

By the time I graduated from college I had succeeded despite my parents’ attempts to ruin my life.

I couldn’t wait to meet the lucky girl who would get me for a husband. A blessing like me doesn’t come along very often.

I knew more about running a church than my boss who had been in ministry for more than 30 years.

Americans would never pay more than $2 for a cup of coffee.

I was holding on to my Members Only jacket because it would never go out of style. (Well, they’re back!)

It’s your turn. What did you know for certain at 22 that life has since shown you differently?

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  3. Chris Ferris Avatar
    Chris Ferris

    Funny and poignant, Maurilio. It's amazing how much life teaches us. I thought a knew more about just about everything than I do today.

  4. Sally Moore Avatar
    Sally Moore

    I feel sorry for your wife. 🙂

    1. MaurilioAmorim Avatar

      So does everyone else. 🙂

  5. Mark Logan Avatar
    Mark Logan

    I still have my Members Only jacket. So you say it's coming back?

    1. MaurilioAmorim Avatar

      It's back Mark. If it still fits wear it proudly.

  6. Kerri Karel Avatar
    Kerri Karel

    At 22 I was convinced that…

    1. Gravity would not affect my body. Maybe yours (probably yours) but not mine.
    2. I would never say to my kids what my parents said to me.
    3. I too was smarter than those around me with more experience.
    4. I was in total control of my destiny.

    Today I am very grateful that God is in the driver's seat and that my husband loves me in spite of gravity!

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  8. Larry_Hehn Avatar

    When I was 22 I knew that mullets were the height of fashion.
    And that bell bottom jeans would never make a comeback.
    Who knew?

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