Month: March 2009

  • How to Market Yourself: Lessons from a 15 yr Old Entrepreneur

    When I found out that my current lawn service did not mowed grass in my new neighborhood, I decided to call on a few people who have left cards or mailed pamphlets to my new house. One that caught my attention was Will’s Lawn Service. Will is a 15-year old 9th grader from the neighborhood, but according to his marketing piece he “has been on a lawn mower since I was 5 and have been cutting grass professionally for the past 3 years.”


    I called on 4 different people including Will. I talked with 3 people and left a message with the other, including my new address and needs; however, Will was the only one who called from the property with a price. He also offered to cut the grass right away. It’s been over a week now since my first round of calls, and I haven’t heard back from the other three people on a price. And, by the way, my yard is a respectable 1.2 acres.

    Will did a great job cutting the grass and even got the stripes in the angle I requested. He asked me if he had the job moving forward. “Let me talk with Gwen, and I’ll get back with you by the end of the week,” I told him. The rest of the week was busy and I forgot all about Will. Friday afternoon my phone rang. Will was on the other line wanting to know if I had made my decision. I remember thinking, “this kid is going to do great in life,” as I talked with the 15 year old.

    Here’s a few lessons business people need to learn from Will:

    1. Don’t lie, but make your pitch interesting. How much experience can a young teenage have? Well, enough. You don’t have to embellish your resume to get the job. Take your perceived weakness and turn them into strengths. Will didn’t have a large crew, but he was nearby, his price was good and he could cut the grass on a Friday, which is my preferred date (in case you didn’t pick up on it, I’m a bit demanding). I loved his line: “I’ve been mowing professionally since I was 11.”

    2. Seize the moment. Will called me back shortly after I left him a message. I know he was in school until 3 p.m. so he called minutes after he left class. When people want things done right away, often the first person to call back gets the job.

    3. Do good work. Well, you’d think that’s assumed, but you’d be surprised on how many times people have done substandard work and wondered why I hadn’t called them back.

    4. Follow up. Three days later, Will called me back to make sure he had the job. Instead of wondering why people have not called you back, follow up with them. I was just too busy to think about the grass until it needed to be cut again.

    It’s easy to blame the economy, unreasonable people and our insane parents. But if we were to try just a bit harder, we’d be surprised of how much more we can accomplish. Now I’m trying to convince Will to hire my 14-year-old son, Marcus and take him on under his wings.

    What lessons what you learned lately?

  • The Cat Condo

    I put my house in the market a couple of weeks back and, of all the upgrades we’ve made over the years, i.e. granite, commercial appliances, our cat condo got the most attention. We built the “cabitat” when we moved in 10 years ago in the garage to give Bob and Kissinger (Bob has gone to cat heaven) a place to enjoy the outdoors without going out since they were both de-clawed.

    The cabitat is near the garage door and is accessed from the house through a tiny door hidden behind a couch in our great room. I have been asked by several people who have heard of the contraption to take pictures. I decided a video was a better idea.

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    How far have you gone for a pet?

  • The Breakfast Song

    Even though I think their theology is flawed–we’re gonna have a big breakfast in heaven–this video just make me happy!

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    In the clip, Minister Cleo Clariet and his fiancĂ© Katherine Lane are shown singing on “The Kay Bain Show” in Tupelo, Mississippi in May or June of 2004.Clariet passed away from congenital heart disease on Dec. 13, 2004. Lane said he would have been thrilled to know his song is now entertaining so many people.

    So what’s your favorite breakfast food? Mine? Biscuits with chocolate gravy, eberskivers (Dutch pancakes filled with jams, fruits or cheeses), and egg white omelets.

  • Are you Ready to Fly?

    What do you do when you’re not ready to make a move, or change your career or go out on your own, but, suddenly, you’re pushed out of your comfort zone? Do you free fall to the ground, or are you ready to fly?


    I was reminded of my own story today as I visited with my friend Joshua Phillips. I met Joshua years ago when he refinanced my home. Since then, he has put together three different mortgages for me and has become a good friend and client in the process. Besides being a businessman, Joshua has a heart for ministry and has spent a lot of his effort and money in helping people see themselves as God sees them through his involvement in Fully Alive Ministries.

    Three days after I closed on my new home at the end of January, Joshua emailed me to let me know that his current employer, Realty Mortgage, was going out of business. My mortgage was the last one they closed. (Thank you Lord and thank you, Joshua). He also mentioned that he didn’t know what his next steps were but that that he was praying and seeking God’s will.

    During lunch today Joshua told me he now owns his own company backed by PrimeLending, a large bank and mortgage from Texas but new to Tennessee. He currently owns two branches, Brentwood and Murfreesboro and is looking at adding another one soon. The truth is that Joshua was very comfortable at Realty Mortgage. He was making great money and his hours were flexible. However, it took Realty Mortgage going bankrupt before he was pushed out of the his comfortable nest and forced to fly on his own.

    Today Joshua is a business owner. In a few months, he’ll probably make more money than ever before, and beyond the extra money, he’ll be able to impact a lot more people through Fully Alive Ministries because of the extra resources he’ll be able to allocate to the cause he is so passionate about.

    Years ago I went through a similar experience as Joshua as I found myself in a crisis situation that propelled me to start The A Group.

    I want to encourage you today if you find yourself in a difficult time. Like Joshua, don’t dwell on the failure, but look beyond it into the opportunity and how you can seize it. I hate going through a crisis, but I’m amazed at how much I have grown spiritually as well as professionally because of them as I look back and take inventory.

    What’s going on in your world? How are you being forced out of the nest into your new future?

  • Ready or Not Here Comes Change

    People often say they like change. But they lie. We really dislike it. Very few of us are truly “change agents,” as it has become of the battle cry of so many consultant wannabes. Most of us only seriously contemplate change when staying the same is more painful than the perceived cost of the path.

    But whether any of us like it or not, change is being thrown at us at an unbelievable pace. If you have problem with it in your life, watch the video below at your own risk.

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    So what does it mean to you? I’d love your input.